How Do I know If She Is Right For Me?

The most asked question from a man with certain characteristics; an individual that is in search for answers to come up to terms with his manhood. At first, this question seems so simple to answer. Complexity of social interactivity and personal backgrounds can put any one to think. Here we are going to put our own experience and mind into the matter.

SELF INTROSPECTION

Honestly, we can come up with a clearer view of the problem. We can unscramble certain predetermined social trends and psychological views, and clear up certain attitudes. We know for sure that it can be hard for anyone to come out with a positive self introspection.

We can start fresh with some reasons for this straightforward question. Why do you want to know more about the other sex's unreachable reactions? Probably bad luck and embarrassing situations can put a load into our insecure mind. Let's break things down and then you will see where you stand at, personally and socially as well:

• Insecurity
• Certain immatureness
• Status

Depending on your background, you feel where you stand against that 'world' that starts to 'breath' on its own, just a few inches from your physical body. You have come to the conclusion that you wanted this 'girl' so bad... However, you felt as though she was too much for you to handle. The reason why you are reading us is because your fears are somewhat being confirmed.

Insecurity is a state of mind, meaning that if you think the world hates you, then you will believe it to the end of the day. A mature mind comes with the years and experience. There is security in a job, security in a deal, but allocating security in handling your own feelings, that is another story. Successful men follow a natural pattern, that fem-mes notice right away by choice and by selectivity.

That sex appeal is learned through the years. And believe us, we all start somewhere in the art of love and feel loved. It takes time to learn how to drive a car. Why would it be easier to find that love of your life? Nature made it a little harder, so selectivity and survival of the fittest could become self centered and very particular... before taking eventually its normal venue.

Women want to have a man by her side, not a young brother playing to be a boyfriend. Just imagine our Babe... Babe... Babe..! Justin Bieber trying to date Carmen Electra? Is there a chance to make this relationship work?

Unfortunately women grow faster than us guys. So if you are, lets say16, and want to date a girl your age, beware and be careful; either she is using you or she felt sorry for you. Most girls at 16 are around 3 years ahead of our hypothetical 16 years old boy. Probably you have an older brother and this girl wants to just use you.

They actually dress to look older and don't want to look so naive. They even have their own minds set around 13-14 years old. Prince charm is gotta be older enticing and unique. Your best bet is to learn from the older guys... and little by little take the 'post.' How about the older dude? Well, he just let the years pass him by. The solution to a very personal problem has been put off, by him and by society.

Ever wonder why your older sister was already thinking ahead of you? Just trust your guts and your heart to see through that gal's eyes. Some will be honest and will be straight. After knowing the hard true, you will have to move on and take it easy for a little while.

There is no way Prince William could've ever met Kate Midleton if it wasn't for her studying at the same alma matter as the future King did.

No movie star would ever think of marrying an unknown guy. Even Knights in shining armors, looked into the best bet around their Kingdom. You need to be realistic and measure up your capabilities... and limitations. Daydream like us: We wanted to meet

Charlize Theron, but we know she would be too much for us. So we are being honest with you, if you want to try, you are free to do it, but don't come back to us in pain.

We are going to answer you with our heart. So, 'honesty' will flow from us toward you and your 'hope':

• She smiles and connects with you
• She bites her lips unconsciously, even if you don't look...
• She wants to join you in silly deeds and trips to the end of the world
• She can trust you with her life. Well, can you trust our advice?
• She calls you with any excuse in mind, even if is just to say hi
• She tells her best girlfriend about you, and her hidden 'sealed self commitment to you.'
• She is willing to break some rules and make subtle advancements

Know yourself better. Study the girl of your likeness, and see the signs. You are free to move on if you feel like you are already wasting your time. Easy to say it right? But you need to move heaven and earth in order to accomplish some goals that were left behind.