THE ACT OF GIVING

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By lord de cross

From the very minute we are born, we deal with this simple word over and over; the first paragraph that was heard by the author was 'give and you shall receive'. Probably was at church or has been read or... heard about from my parents.

So, what is the purpose of this hub then? It just came to my mind while shopping and doing my groceries. The verb just clicked in my mind and I said, maybe I should write about it.


GIVING IS A GIFT

You mean a gift?, a reward? Or what do we mean with that? You reader should realize now that I'm answering as I write and the words just keep flowing... Is a gift because you can use it as you want and not all of us are given at the same level . If you happen to feel good when you give, then it was instilled in your heart from the moment you were conceived.

Your parents gave each other the gift of love. Now we can go back further and see how our creator he gave us this Earth...yeah!

"He is not real and religion is man's invention." Just one thing for you: If it wasn't for gravity and this celestial gravitational laws, we would've been falling infinitely on the Universe.

Now we go back when we were little tiny babies. Your mother most likely fed you from the time you cried after this nasty doctor smacked your butt...slap and smack! So you felt good and your mom too felt wonderfully desired by you; the connection was there through the umbilical cord, going further to breastfeeding and enjoying the formula that your mother 'gave' you ceremoniously. Remember the flying spoon that landed in your mouth?



IT CREATES HORMONES TO KEEP YOU HEALTHY

You picture your mom, holding you and kissing you, and 'giving' you all the attention you can have as a baby? Her own face changed and even her eyes sparkled those emotions. If you see those eyes again through a girlfriend/boyfriend, most likely you will cry out of nothing.

Giving can create defenses in your own body that physicians cannot understand thoroughly. Put it this way, is like praying for your own wellness, but without noticing it. See how bad you feel when you do deceive someone's trust?


GIVE AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE

Okay, you bought your brand new car 2011 and you are ready to get out of the dealership. If you did your deeds and you thought you deserved it, then is fine... but what about if your ex needed a car, or your College kid was in the need of one, or maybe a brother needed your help because his house was about to be foreclosed? Remember also this hub is not scripted, is being written as the words flow from our minds. Back to us

If you had a terrible childhood then you know you won't care, but if you were 'given' certain values, then you are in control. The first thing that you receive by giving is a longer and fruitful life, peace of mind and the feeling of getting closer to elevate and rise up your soul and existence to higher levels.

By not giving properly, ulcers and other complications will knock your door as you age. Another thing, when we reach the age of and unexpected retirement, we will have more time to think, since we stay home longer and ... you might guess it right now: All what you did from the beginning will be shown in a mental picture over and over. Your heart will start to disrupt with some memories.

The older you get the less you sleep right? They don't tell you the details but, death is picking up the pieces and start checking your deed's account. If you are on the red, then this 'shark' will eat you quickly. So many Hollywood stars succumbed to Cancer and a simple fall.

The author had so many experiences that some would call miracles. We were helping some people and out of nothing we would get promoted or giving bonuses. Probably our top managers see that we are honest enough to deserve it... but it happened.

I remember in 2005, when Katrina struck, my son, 12 yrs old then, took his big piggy bank with coins and 'gave' it to us saying, "Dad, I saw this people on TV losing their houses and spending the night at this stadium, I think this will help them. I'm fine with my X-box game dad" You see? How or why did he react like that?


FINAL THOUGHTS

Is 2011 and seems that this is our worst year financially speaking. We witnessed laying offs left and right( this hub was not scripted, remember?). Postal workers are worried, Verizon is about to pass the pink slips again. And what can we do about this? If you check the scriptures, you will see that this is the sign of a lifetime.

And we have to be prepared. If you have extra cloths, donate. Winter is terrible with no roof over your head. Try to help your neighbors... maybe all this happened to us in order to regain lost values. If you lose your electricity and cannot afford Cable, then you probably will talk more to your fellow man. If you lose your job, you will have more time to do things... maybe read, or keep yourself busy walking around and for the first time in years meet new people. "I came dressed like a hungry man and I knocked your door...."

"For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me."

Mathew 25: 35-36



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marellen Level 6 Commenter 7 months ago

Nice hub and you are so right. It is better to give and I have written several hubs on the giving I have received from others and how members of my family have also been the givers.

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lord de cross Hub Author 7 months ago

Marellen,

As I said...words came to me and I dropped my groceries and signed in into HP. What you read ..came out of my heart. No research, not even pausing. Thanks for the comments and have a blessed day.

LORD

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neighborhoodtools 7 months ago

I appreciate your message....no electricity? maybe it's time to "talk more to your fellowman"...help your neighbors...hopefully, more people will see the value of giving, being community-oriented, and volunteerism.

People are always searching for anything that can make them feel high, worthy, exhilarated, and joyful----and those can simply come from giving.

(P.S. If you know of a neighborhood group or church group looking for community-building tools, please recommend http://splitstuff.com.)

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lord de cross Hub Author 7 months ago

Welcome to our comunity Neighborhoodtools!

I've checked out your site,,,and certainly it can be of use for so many people. Thanks for your comments and opinions

LORD

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carriethomson Level 5 Commenter 7 months ago

humm that was some food for thought!! But don’t you think we must also indulge in a bit of luxuries if it is our hard earned money!! Yes definitely giving is a virtue and a person must have compassion and give to poor, but after that you can definitely indulge without any guilt it won’t hurt when you have time to think about it!!

Giving away everything is not a good idea, or feeling guilty about a new car is also not so great. To enjoy the car guilt free what we can do is apart from donating old toys, clothes and things like that save money for donating or helping a friend. And then when time comes use that to help out.:))

And yes i must say that a 12 yr old boy giving away his savings for helping out is a sweet gesture and shows that he has a big heart and good values!!

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lord de cross Hub Author 7 months ago

Wow! long comment Carrie! You are right! You can indulge your hard earn money the best that you can. God gave us free will and there is nothing wrong with that. This hub was written by heart and it was laid onto the paper as it was. Not all of us will have a similar opinion.. same way as no all of us would agree with the President's decision. Thanks Carrie! You did great!

LORD

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Sun-Girl Level 2 Commenter 7 months ago

Wow, what an excellent and useful piece of advice you actually shared in here which i really enjoyed coming across and i agree with all you made mention of in here.Thanks dear for really sharing this awesome work.

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lord de cross Hub Author 7 months ago

hI SUN-GIRL,

Again, this are written from our mind and heart..nothing was staged or even corrected. Giving is a very powerful word and its use is also worth talking about. Was surprised by your visit. You did roam all over my hubs. Lol!

LORD

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ibbarkingmad Level 3 Commenter 7 months ago

I have been one to give the shirt off my back if it is needed. I am not bragging, just stating a fact. The problem I have noticed is whether the giving has a positive effect. Going into details about this realization would take too long, but the long and the short of it is that I am now more cautious about what I give and who I give it to. I have realized that the best gift I can give is employment. Now, while I do regularly give to charities, I am focusing my efforts on getting myself to the point where I can use my money and ideas to create businesses and jobs. These jobs create on going wealth and more money which I will use to create more jobs still. It is so true that teaching a man to fish is better than giving a man a fish. Still, I love the message this hub gives because there are times when we must give completely. I remember my dad having us boys fill sandbags on Thanksgiving Day to help those who's homes were flooding and asking nothing in return, not even a thank you. The message I suppose I am rambling on about is there is a time and a place so long as we are open to give and make the world better by it. Thanks for the great hub!

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lord de cross Hub Author 7 months ago

Nice long response my friend,

Seems that we can work wonder filling up sands of bag! and teaching so our fellow man can fish by himself on the pond of life. Thanks for your words!

LORD

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fucsia Level 3 Commenter 7 months ago

Great Hub. It is always the time to give but maybe now, in our particular storic moment, is the better moment to give. Every situation if we want can be an important lesson and we can learn to give, to a friend, to a stranger, to a parent, to a collegue.

Thank you for this page!

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lord de cross Hub Author 7 months ago

You are welcome, FUCSIA!.Your comments are appreciated!Seems that this reccesion will be historical by the unempolyment indicators, but as a Nation we can get this thru! Thanks again!

LORD

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epigramman 7 months ago

...well my act of giving back to you for writing and exploring such a wonderful subject which could literally make the world a better and smaller place - is to post this classic hub to my FACEBOOK page with a direct link back here .... lake erie time ontario canada 5:30 am just arrived home from work to a beer and soul classic interpretations of the Beatles and of course a posting of a new one.

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lord de cross Hub Author 7 months ago

Hey Epi!

Didn't know you had a night job. I have a day job and, just like you, HP is my second obligation.. better said, my second inspirational place to be. Thanks for commenting my friend. Things are getting better and the holidays are coming sooner that we think!

LORD

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fpherj48 Level 8 Commenter 5 months ago

A true believer in "Random Acts of Kindness" and "Paying it Forward," I thoroughly enjoy your stories..

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lord de cross Hub Author 5 months ago

There you go fpherj48,

You understood our 'random acts' that don't look for a reward at the end of the day. Thnaks for stopping by my friend!

LORD

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kelleyward Level 7 Commenter 4 weeks ago

Great hub Lord with very useful information. I also believe that God has purpose for each of us and kindness is a huge part of being fully human. Great read voted up and useful. Take care, Kelley

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lord de cross Hub Author 3 weeks ago

Thanks KelleyWard,

I also believe that the creator of all has a purpose for us all. Glad to see you popping up all over.

LORD

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