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Why People Cannot Live in Harmony With Other People

Updated on March 15, 2012
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You might be wondering why this issue has been around forever.

We can go back to the moment when Cain killed Able and see in his eyes the guiltiest look out of anger and perhaps remorse.

We can go back to Tutankhamun's times and see his own people taking his life. Or maybe we can go to that Senatorum, where Brutus and a bunch of 'good for nothing' Senators, end the life of Caesar. Even here at HP, we have to deal with different reactions to our hubs...or just come with us and hear Republicans getting ready to veto this insignificant allowance for Obama's puppy. In real life, this is not so funny.

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So why we do not get along?

Is human nature. Simple, but we have to write 300 more words in order to meet the quota for AdSense.

We try to compare ourselves with others

Even myself, I tend to criticise my own sloppy comments that go nowhere, except my own trash can. We, unconsciously, do compare ourselves with some people. Why? You gotta go back to your first memories and find out that that cake was never made for you, or that remark about your look when you were on 4th grade. In order to make up for that void we create this mental shield; we try to stick with the trend of the day and the fashion. Some areas of in our brain need to release some endorphins after having an argument; this tendency to keep pushing the limits feeds that need. Amazing right? But if you try to check your own acts, you will see... or probably catch up with your own behavior. Sorry, I never meant to say, "pants down"

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I know I cannot get along, then I'll join my own

If you are an armament dealer, you don't need to get along with any one. You create controversy and push for that button. If you are dealing with drugs, then you need to supply your clients before Saturday night. What does it cause? Of course this will deteriorate so many surroundings. If you are texting while your are driving, of course you will bring your little piece of bad Karma against those MADD moms. If you are a male, then you cannot be free to avoid harmony by driving everyday to work. There will be 3 hours out of those 24, when you definitely will be exposed to that 'cheating factor' kind. Do you honestly believe that harmony will be found after all these unwanted situations?

We are not alone, and we can diverge in our opinions...!
We are not alone, and we can diverge in our opinions...! | Source

Society and its moving environment

We all are not born equal. Some will become excellent Scientists and others will aim for the White House. If we could see every household through this X-ray vision mind, we will see couples talking and approaching a solution to a daily issue. Genetically, we men are supposed to find answers to keep our spouses at bay. But, just wait for any intruder to tell you what to do and end up on that Yahoo's mugshot of the week. Or just look through your window seeing your neighbor Max being sneaky enough to let his dogie piss on your own front yard. This will be like well, gee! Where my boundaries end, starts my own neighbors 'release of pain'

You've heard the saying, "Can't we just get along?" The next minute your face will welcome that big apple pie from the three stooges. Smash!!

Society itself moves with the news and the gone viral video from an ex husband that was caught by a camera, trying to date a young teen. Republicans and Democrats paying for those 15 seconds ads, just to let you know that your current candidate, had an affair 25 years ago. I mean gee! How can we keep our harmony as part of a society? You sent those 50 bucks in the mail for a campaign, and was used to pay for that despicable commercial that we have to deal with on every political campaign.

Just do your best by:

  • Accepting others mistakes
  • Learn to set your emotional boundaries.
  • Watch that puppy please! He can lick your face, but not your neighbors.
  • Set a daily goal and think ahead. If you know trouble is around the corner, avoid shaking its hands.
  • If you love gossiping, tell us, we would like to laugh with you, and keep it to ourselves.
  • Education. Set yourself in improving your mind.
  • Learn to be patient, when you get that speeding ticket
  • Just have fun. Life is too short.

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